This space has been a gawking hole in my heart for such a long time now – I do blame the corporate world for this, however it’s also one of those things that you keep letting fester because it feels like getting back into the swing of things will be so overwhelming – not realising it’s just going to keep getting tougher as time passes. 😦 SO. I was like. Bas. Bohot hogaya hai. I created this. Its ok. Just write. Doesn’t matter if you aren’t the most eloquent. Just do what comes to you naturally with a pen in your hand. The best part about having your own blog space is that it’s always going to be your own, you can choose to do what you want with it – and no one can take it away from you – which I’ve realised is pure bliss. 🙂 I also have some of the nicest readers on here – some who silently lurk in the background, and some who are more vocal – I appreciate you all, nonetheless. ❤
I watched a movie at the cinema the other day after almost 3 years (the last time I watched a movie was after my last ever exam for my undergrad) – although it didn’t feel that long, lulz. As you can tell, I’m not a regular cinema-goer but when I do go, it’s for a movie I deem a must-watch for whatever reason.
I saw Cake – which is a Pakistani film I’d not heard a single bad review of and also one whose cast I have admired from previous roles. The movie was excellent, despite my average standards of movie-rating, lulz. I don’t have a single bad thing to say about it (minus the heavy promotion of smoking and the tiny bits of distasteful language – how is this PG 13?) It was very realistic – I loved the plot, the music, the smattering of Sindhi, the comic relief, the relationships, the clothes! Hehe. My favourite characters were the parents – they were adorbs, you guys. Also, I picked up a bunch of random things that I thought I’d throw in here, kinda like mini takeaways from the movie – if you will:
– Parents don’t want your gratitude. They need your support as they age – just as you needed their support when you were a 2 year old – life kind of comes full circle with them not being the same way as they grow older.
– Dreams are the only way we can hold onto some hope in this life – a way to find calm within the chaos.
– Just because we don’t give value to someone’s dreams, doesn’t mean they’re devoid of value themselves.
– “Bhad mein jayein eyebrows.” Community is a big part of our culture. You have them during the good and the bad – but sometimes people don’t know where to draw the line and can be far too nosy, presumptuous and judgmental. The closing scene where an aunty tries to take a picture of a couple that finally gets together on a motorbike and the girl (who had been worried her whole life of what people think) gives her the middle finger for the picture captures this perfectly, LOL.
– You and your spouse are each other’s support for your entire life. Love, laughter and gratitude are needed evermore when you’ve built a life together over many decades. (This was a bit of a different take than the usual stereotype presented wherein couples – especially aged ones – are never shown to have any sort of love between them but this was a refreshing take on this).
Never thought an impromptu movie discussion would ever be a part of this blog – but I’m surprising myself with the decisions I’m taking. Slowly morphing into a Naureen that is still rebelling – but just more quietly, and carefully picking the battles worth fighting for a better future.